I have been tolerating one question for so long. Finally, today I decided to write about it.
I am a married woman for 4 years. Me and my husband are living a happily married life. But the real problem is we do not have kids. This is not really a problem for us but for the people in our surroundings.
Even after one month of marriage, women started asking me about the baby. earlier i kept on ignoring as i thought soon i will have so they will stop asking. however, we couldn't get a baby regardless of all the efforts. We tried doctors and various advices of the people but nothing happened. it was not merely a matter of frustration but also a matter of answering people that why don't we have one child at least????????
Strangers, in the very first meeting ask about kids.
Relatives, who meet us on every weekend ask us about kids.
People living far away especially contact us to ask about kids.
Those who don't ask, have got another way to inquire ‘you will get one kid soon so don't worry’.
Some other say: “thank GOD you both don't have kids so you can enjoy freely without any mess”
Seriously people, are you that free?
Are you that free to forget about your issues and keep making other realized that you should have kids?
struggle for kids is already nerve wrecking and people; questions make it worse. they think they show sympathy but no it is their cruelty. I can't even praise the kid if i love any as people often assume that I am dying to get one and they start sympathizing with me…..
This is not going to end till the time GOd gives us kid or people’s comments make us feel broken or apart. Many a times, I felt heartbroken due to this shit.
Do you guys also believe in asking personal questions?for example:
what's your age?
why don't you have kids?
Do you know after 30, it is impossible to get kids?
when are you getting married?
why are you not getting married?
why you are doing this job? etc etc
please share your thoughts regarding asking these sicking personal questions….
