It is so tragic and torturous indeed to recall the mistakes that we make in our lives. Yes, they do give us lesson; it is rightly said that mistakes are our best teachers. But, can we really get over all those mistakes that we make in the past. We all yearn to spend sometime alone when we feel ourselves swamped into today’s busy world. Yet, whenever we get some free time, a harsh and bizarre thought comes across our mind, and we suddenly shift our posture to say it goodbye. These mistakes from the past keeps our morale and energy down. We always feel pessimistic and down. No one can ever understand what we really want from our lives? Then there comes a time when we start to visit therapists and psychiatrists for some counseling sessions. But what kind of magic stick do they have? Grinder(a linguist)and Bandlar( a mathematician) coined for this reason the term of ‘Neurolinguistic Programming’(NLP).
NLP , a combination of Neuro(thoughts), linguistics(verbal and non-verbal language), and programming(change of behaviour via altering thoughts and shaping language), teaches us tremendously to cope up with our life lessons. Instead of feeling de-motivated and depressed, it teaches us to feel passion and zest for the lost dreams and negative states. NLP explores our internal world while spreading positivity inside. When people visit counselors and therapists, what they do is: bring positivity to them, give them numerous chances to recall all those negative thoughts which keep them perplexed and confused. Then their next job is to replace the negative thought's with the positive ones using the positive words. This is called programming. this is what anybody can do to take control of his life instead of giving up due to past life’s miseries.
we all need to understand no one’s life is perfect; every one is fighting a unique battle that no one else can imagine. but not all deal with them the same way. some rise form the problems and some go towards more destruction. now we have to make our choice: go towards rise or destruction. Are life lessons leading us to our happy ending or we want to spend the same hellish stuff destroys us entirely. Choice is all ours!
Don’t you Agree?
